Shybi 3.0

I'm in my late 40s and grew up in the UK. While there was an LGBT club (no more letters in those days) in my university,I never felt "gay enough" to attend. And jokes about gay people were still fair game when I was in my teens. For example while Blackadder is hilarious I dare you to rewatch "goes ...

Guess I’ll add myself to the list of those who are ride (get it?) or die for the strap

It’s definitely one of the hottest things I’ve ever experienced

... heart. My friendships have always been one of the most important aspects of my life.

While this is posted in questions/answers, I have neither of those.


Big hugs for you. Friendships often provide a sense of belonging, and when they dissolve, we might feel unmoored and uncertain about our place ...

... who I can count on to be there for me if I needed them. I know how lucky I am to be able to say that.

But the last time I heard from one of those people was in April, and it’s been weighing on my heart. She has left me on read for months (over a pretty basic text) and while I’m resigned to ...

... wet noises and im so wet for her that i'm going insane. She shudders and her legs tremble, she comes hard. I have never seen her look more beautiful, my heart melts in that moment. She takes a moment to catch her breath, looks at me with those beautiful dark brown eyes and says: "Your turn now"!

... is this woman at a nearby gas station. Dear gosh...what is with me and women who work at gas stations? Ugh! She's so beautiful, and her hair has those bouncy curls. Did I mention she's beautiful?

Storytime!
My boyfriend and I went there before work to get coffee and breakfast, and we were going ...

... does me no service; however, I should talk about it because it comes up now and then.

I'm trying to be positive, but it isn't easy. It's one of those things where I do the right things, like trying to go out more and talk to people, but to no avail; polyamory has a stigma. Also, it doesn't help ...

... for that and use of AI understanding it's limitations is probably more helpful than banning it.

But AI draws from data from societies and those societies have inherent bigotry, bias etc. Its only fairly recently that some of this bias has become clear. And it's not necessarily deliberate ...

... feels a bit like these are things I'm not allowed to discuss as a left wing person and I'm not sure that's helpful? If anything it plays into the hands of those with much more extreme views than me.

If asking questions like this in good faith is not allowed, happily block and ban me if you like. 🤷‍♀️

The reference to the poem will be evident to some but for those who don't know Philip Larkin's poem, this is it:

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were fucked up in their turn ...