Shybi 3.0

The reality is she kept that site going, at least partially at her own expense (and the expenses she posted at one point were significant), for 15-20 years (I'm a little unclear if the first incarnation of the site on Internet Archive, from 2003, ...

... there aren't men who identify as men joining? Maybe I'm paranoid. But like some others here I'd never talk online with a man I didn't know, at least not knowingly as I would find that violating considering what I've been through in life. But something someone said to me a while back made me ...

... though. I'm in a relationship with a man. And yeah. He's typical. Honestly, after bursting into tears in my boss's office today? I think it's at least in part depression. In part perhaps balancing the HRT. In part not feeling my relationship but also feeling desperately lonely.

... too). Now I'm being beaten with the perimenopause stick, and I'm far less interested than I used to be. On one hand, being single now and with (at least theoretically) more freedom to act on things, this is kind of frustrating. On the other, I'm probably far less angsty about my single status because ...

... all that much. I like having them available for when I'm in a certain mood, but most of the time just handling things myself is simpler and at least as satisfying. And the vibrating ones just don't last long enough. I'll need to invest in rechargeable batteries for those to be worth it. I do ...

Oh no @shymona , that is not good.
Statistically speaking it's a 100% crushing failure rate haha.

Moral of the story? Have a crush on someone where there is at least a 50% chance something could happen!
I know, easier said than done.

... Dear Leader Night. The insupportable coward named Mike Pence re-assured us he would in fact be voting for the man who vowed to have him hung. At least Vivek got crushed. And Lovable Tim Scott was revealed to be the religious extremist he is in reality. Not that it matters because until further ...

... to be in a relationship for the sake of a relationship. I don't want to be putting in the work of a relationship if I'm not getting something at least roughly equivalent in return. The process of dating sounds exhausting, demoralizing, and impractical with my current life situation. If I did ...

... connect with some really amazing people and even some more intimate connections. Shy helped me to come out of my shell and finally be me—well at least online anyways. I don’t always say what I’m thinking or feeling, but it has made me feel so not alone and to know there are others like me. I ...

... sure you love her though if you describe her as "bat shit crazy". The way you write about her feels like you are attracted to her but at least for me, that's not love.