Shybi 3.0

I just want to be honest with him because part of me feels like he deserves to know the truth. [/quote] I simply told my husband that I was not straight. We were out of town. Then, one night I said that I wanted to share something very personal ...

I’ve honestly been tossing around the question of whether to tell him or not. I am totally and completely done with him—there’s nothing left between us despite him telling me he “loves” me. But I have closed myself off to him, no affection, intimacy, or even ...

Why do you feel that he deserves to know the truth? It’s a question worth exploring, since you say you’re done with him.

I’d be wary of coming out to him while you live with him, unless you can trust that he’ll be able to handle that news appropriately (and specifically that he won’t harm you).

Hello Brendolyn59! Welcome to this lovely place full of various spectrums of experience and life stages. Am also a woman from the Midwest and only still married to him on paper—all other aspects of the marriage have been gone for a very long time now.

... hubs and I have sat down and had a conversation about how I’m just done—done being married, some trying to fix something that’s not fixable due to him not wanting to change..blah blah blah. He still keeps trying to feed my head with crap, trying to convince me he wants it to work with us and blah ...

I love my husband for this exact reason. He doesn't feel threatened at all, knows at the end of the day I love him, and he and my son come first. And future girl would have to be ok with that, which is where another married girl would be perfect.

I told my husband that I am back on here and he reaffirmed what he said to me years ago; that he is fine with me exploring and having relationships with other women.

Knew there was a reason why I married him

He has too except a 'open relationship' if he want me to live with him, as I am bisexual and have girlfriends, and he is totally fine with that,
I do not sleep with other men (only him) and he does not consider 'girl sleep-overs' cheating, our relationship is solid with no problems.

... regular user on Shybi about 10 years ago, but stopped around the time I got married to my husband. We have been together for many years and I love him immensely, however the older I get the more certain I am about the fact that I am bi. He knows this about me and years ago was happy for me to seek ...

... what's the difference between sex with a man and sex with a woman? About an hour lol. They say there is often some truth in a joke. I do like him lasting more than 60 seconds. Ok some last a lot longer, but generally? A couple of minutes perhaps? So on that basis, so much more fulfilling with ...